When you return to your sovereign state, you can no longer live in fear. It dissipates. And when it pokes its head up, you know exactly how to love it into dissolution. Because you are that f*cking powerful. Your Sovereignty affects every single relationship in your life. How could it not? You show up exactlyContinue reading “Be that F*cking Powerful”
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Claim your Worthiness
I remember the middle school dance like it was yesterday. Me: dancing wildly, clapping my hands, stomping my feet, turning around in wide circles with a huge smile on my face. Then, suddenly, a young boy came up and interrupted my flow. He snarled, “What do you think you’re doing? You can’t dance.” It stoppedContinue reading “Claim your Worthiness”
How to Trust your Soul’s Vision
Keeping our eyes focused purely on the outside world can easily lead us into grief. I felt that grief for most of my life, appalled and outraged by the behavior of humankind. My eyes stayed focused on the external experience I was having. It was my mind that dictated my own reality. The mind –Continue reading “How to Trust your Soul’s Vision”
Open the Door to Freedom by Embodying the Priestess Within
You’re invited to watch this recent podcast interview between myself and Tessa Tovar with Outside the Studio. Here’s what we talk about: What is victim consciousness and how to move beyond itThe tools of the body, the soul, and the goddess or divine feminineWhat is the heart work, including a guided example of how toContinue reading “Open the Door to Freedom by Embodying the Priestess Within”
A Journey to True Power
In the courtroom, I was a high-powered attorney who spoke up loudly on behalf of others. I had no trouble raising my voice or being seen in my crisp pantsuit. I knew I was in control. Authority was granted to me by the State, which meant people had to listen to me. I knew IContinue reading “A Journey to True Power”
Bring the Fear into Your Heart
The essence of the work I do is redefining the way we love to include both self and other. It can only happen through the heart, which always sees both. The ego-mind, on the other hand, always sees one or the other. It is either better than or worse than. Violence against women can beContinue reading “Bring the Fear into Your Heart”
The Art of Both
Isn’t it funny how much we want other people to agree with us? I see it everywhere, especially now. When we believe strongly in something, we try to convince other people we are right. It is the only way. When we can’t accept an opposite opinion than our own, it’s often because we are afraidContinue reading “The Art of Both”
You get to be You
Have you ever been in the middle of a relationship and asked yourself, “What happened? Where did I go?” It starts subtly, like pretending you agree with your partner, even though you know inside it’s not true. In fact, you adamantly disagree but fear sharing your own opinion because it might “upset him.” Or hidingContinue reading “You get to be You”
Why does Sovereignty matter?
Why does sovereignty matter? If you want to be free, you must be sovereign. I’m talking about true, internal freedom that is not based on a fleeting moment or circumstance. I thought I found freedom when I left a successful legal career as a criminal prosecutor. I thought I found freedom when I traveled aroundContinue reading “Why does Sovereignty matter?”
True Medicine
When I want to turn away from something – an experience, a feeling, a person – I have to ask myself why. What about the experience am I rejecting? What within myself is afraid to face it? Am I turning away by conscious choice, or am I reacting out of fear? Usually, it’s when thingsContinue reading “True Medicine”