Without self-knowledge, we choose based on what we have been told to believe, beliefs we have inherited or absorbed, or old karmic patterns and habits.
Our entire identity becomes wrapped up in external roles, positions, or authority granted to us.
It is based on how we look, how much money or success we have or how other people value us.
We look outside ourselves for approval, validation, acceptance.
We are taught this is where love from from:
Other people
Or an external god “up there” somewhere
Outside of ourselves.
It keeps us locked into unhealthy relationship patterns, jobs that suck the life out of us, or living lives we don’t actually want. It keeps us in cycles of self-denial, self-sacrifice, and self-doubt.
We please. Try to make others happy.
Muffle our true voices.
Push down the feelings that aren’t pretty or nice.
Stifle the silent rage.
Pretend everything is okay.
We believe we’re supposed to be good – according to other people’s expectations and standards of what “good” even means.
We don’t dare look at the parts of ourselves we have shamed or cast aside as unworthy.
We grasp for external power because we have been separated from the true source of our power:
Our Divinity

Our own divine nature here in form. Right now.
It is begging for your return.
You must be willing to turn your eyes inward
To see yourself through your own eyes
To remove the shackles of shame, guilt, blame, doubt, fear, and unworthiness
To release the rubble of beliefs, conditioning, the shoulds and demands and expectations that bind you
To reunite with every single aspect of who you are by learning how to source love from within.
Radical, embodied love.
Love that doesn’t turn away from anything.
Love that sees.
Love that hears.
Love that honors.
Love that is fully present.
This kind of love comes from the Self, not at the expense of the Self.
It becomes part of your lived, breathed experience of life, here on earth, as you consciously align every aspect of who you are – mind, body, and soul – back to love.
It is a full reclamation of your power
so you return to wholeness in a dance of sacred inner union.
I offer you this forbidden fruit of self-knowledge and wisdom so you radically embody your own divinity and experience ecstatic soul freedom.
It requires creating internal safety and deep levels of trust in Self.
As your guide, I will walk next to you and help you see what you have not seen before.
Your eyes will be fully opened to your own majesty, your own power, your own choice
so you live the life of your desires and revel in sacred pleasure.
The pleasure of being all of you.
This is what I guide my clients to do in 1:1 Portals of Initiation rooted in ancient feminine wisdom. Learn more about Activating your Sacred Feminine Power for women here and Activating Codes of Courage for men here.
xo,
Jessica Falcon