Safety in the Unknown

Collectively, we’re in times of uncertainty. We don’t know what will happen. It can easily create feelings of tension or discomfort. Instinctively, we look outside for something to grasp, to hold onto, so we feel safe. We want the known, the familiar, the comfortable.

What if you could source safety from within instead?

What if you could anchor so deeply into your body – your womb – that you trusted what inspired action to take in each moment, and you didn’t need to look outside to know what to do because all of your answers lie within?

What if you believed everything you need to know will be revealed to you in exact right timing because your soul is always speaking to you, and it has the capacity to lift you into a new, expansive experience beyond what you have ever experienced before?

We cannot take familiar steps when we are walking into unfamiliar territory.

There is no straight path to soul evolution. It can appear messy and scary at times, often like the last thing you would ever “want” to do. And yet, somehow, that’s where the magic is: in the discomfort, in the unknown, in facing what we don’t want to face.

The first step to sourcing safety is to develop an intimate relationship with your body. To craft time and space in which you can drop in and listen to the silent whispers of your soul. Of your heart. Of your deep longings and desires. They exist to wake you up, to stir you into action, so you follow the path of your soul and not get lost in the external drama.

I teach my clients how to – over time – anchor so deeply into their own wombs nothing outside can penetrate them without their express permission. Life becomes something you create consciously rather than being subjected to it.

It’s a process of developing trust in what your body tells you. Noticing its sensations, energy, movements, inclinations. Become curious about everything you feel and think. What is telling you? Where is it leading you? Are you willing to let go of how you think things should be and simply let life reveal itself to you? Are you willing:

To say, “I don’t know, but I trust my soul to guide me as I take each step?”

To crawl your way around in the darkness as you face your shadows and fears and worries until Truth begins to light the way?

To be willing to fall if it means breaking through thousand-year-old barriers to expansive freedom?

We don’t get to a place of ecstatic soul liberation and safety in the unknown:

* By always having the answer (which was likely fed to our minds by someone else),

* By pretending we don’t care (which is akin to numbing out and dissociating from a reality we think we’re helpless to change), or

* By always feeling comfortable and getting agreement or approval of anybody around you (which is fear of standing up for yourself while letting other people decide whether you are worthy of being – and choosing – for you).

Safety comes through moments of unsafety when you are willing to take care of yourself, have your own back, and self-soothe.

It comes through trusting what you feel and know deep inside even when no one and nothing outside of you can validate it. It comes through giving yourself everything you used to seek from other people, like validation, love, appreciation, and compassion. Because you are dedicated to choosing for yourself no matter what – even if you’re ‘wrong’.”

Your soul doesn’t ever distinguish between “right” and “wrong” anyway. It will not confine itself to the narrow, limiting terms of this physical world. Your soul is much bigger, much grander, much more powerful than that.

The question remaining is: Will you surrender to your soul? Will you let it open your wings so you can fly high into ecstatic liberation – through and in your body – no matter what is happening externally around you? Wil you say yes to you?

I’m offering two upcoming series – one online and the other in-person – both of which are designed to awaken the spark of deep remembrance within you:

Embody the Sovereign Queen: Reclaim your Ancient Power & Experience Soul Freedom in Relationships begins in May. For a taste of this work, join us Thursday, April 14 and Monday, April 18 to Break the Eve Codes – which block us from our true power – for a free online event. Register here to get Monday’s replay and the Zoom link.

Reclaim your Pleasure: Connect to your Sensual, Erotic, Soulful Essence is a 6-week in-person series that will begin Friday, April 29 in Asheville. It will be a delectably divine experience as you open to you. Learn more and register here.

With all my love,

Jessica Falcon

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Jessica Falcon is devoted to helping you heal the wounds of the feminine and reclaim your sovereignty so you experience the ecstasy of full-bodied freedom. A former lawyer turned mystic, she is an International Soul Embodiment Coach, Speaker, and forthcoming Author of The Power of Eve: Heal the Wounds of the Feminine and Reclaim your Sovereignty. It gets to the root of violence against women so women can fully own who they are and reconnect to the power of their body, voice, and sexuality. Doing so is the key to experiencing freedom in all of your relationships. You can learn more about her Portals of Transformation & Activations at

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